Captivate Any Man: Feminine Communication in Modern Dating
What I love about feminine communication is that it works on all healthy, masculine men.
A man on Hinge recently asked me out on a date, “How’s 9 on Saturday?”
To me, a first date starting at nine feels too close to a booty call.
Part of me wanted to stop responding right there—but, transparently, he seemed financially well off AND went to an Ivy League school—so I was curious.
Instead, I channeled my inner feminine communication fairy and said: “The restaurant you chose looks yummy 💗 Im feeling a little nervous about a first date starting at 9. Could we meet a bit earlier?”
What does this text tell him?
I don’t care about his money enough to do things I don’t want to do
The fact that he invited me out for a date at 9 PM triggered unpleasant feelings in my body
When men do things I don’t like, I communicate instead of forcing myself to go along
I’m interested in him, I just need him to approach me a bit differently
I’m high maintenance but it’s not from a place of ego, it’s from a place of feeling emotionally secure enough to connect with the right man
His response was, “Hey! How’s Soho house around 7?”
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