Do you like him or are you ovulating?
Do you like him or are you ovulating?
Girlie, I get it—I too get down bad for a week during my infradian cycle.
This is why it's so important to have a love list.
I didn’t grow up valuing myself and my time.
In fact, I grew up scared to be seen—scared to be myself—with a constant worry about whether or not I was liked.
Now, I’m posting every day on social media, dating men who adore me, having friends who help me grow, and (finally) graduating from one of the best universities in the country.
The only time when my standards get a little shaky is when my body is preparing to get pregnant.
If you’re down bad for a man who isn't reciprocating then here are three pieces of advice:
Understand that you don’t actually like him.
You like the idea of him.
The love of your life wants you back.
Your life partner doesn’t want you to feel like you have to compete with the next girl.
He wants you to feel safe so that you can focus on adoring his masculine presence.
But, if you don't believe me, ask yourself this:
What characteristics does this guy, who isn't reciprocating, have that you admire?
This question is going to let you know what attributes you put on a pedestal.
Instead of admiring him for this one aspect of who he is, develop that in yourself.
Watch how quick your one-sided crush goes away the moment you do this.
Travel.
There’s nothing better than leaving the monotony of your day-to-day life.
When you do, you bombard your brain with new stimuli.
By the time you come back, you’ll see with your own eyes how lame this guy is.
As a woman, you're inherently more valuable than men.
Act like it.
Remember: there are girlies getting designer gifts on the first date.
If you’re not sure if he likes you, it’s because he doesn’t.
Men turn into fiends when they like you.
I’m talking about: gift-giving, calling every other day, and making plans.
This man is making you feel anxious because he doesn’t actually care about you.
He’s triggering your natural (and human) fear of abandonment.
Don’t give him that much power over you.
Instead, create a love list that considers your needs and wants so you stop investing time into these types of men.
If you want help creating a love list that helps you attract men who value you, then book a coaching call.
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Send this to 1 friend needs to get over a bum <3
-Kylie