Dusty FAQs: Pilot Post
I think I’m going to start sharing frequently asked questions that I get from dusties.
This is really fun for me, because as a feminine energy and dating coach—men love to try to haggle the way I encourage women to be authentic to their needs.
What is a dusty?
Dusty (noun): an unappealing man who cannot provide tangible value to the women in his life.
Here are their favorite questions:
“What is your purpose?”
I’m here to do whatever I want.
That is the beauty of being in your feminine energy.
Societal structures and hegemonic rituals don’t dictate what you get to do.
You get to be influential, magnetic, and in flow.
There’s no outcome that you need to achieve, you just need to be.
The sun will explode in about 7 to 8 billion years (this is roughly the same amount of people we have on the planet) and our galaxy will cease to exist as we know it.
I don’t need anyone remembering me in ways that go beyond me having been a joyous, adored, loving, spoiled woman.
Even if I’m painted as a villain in 1000 years, which I wouldn’t be, I care about my experience right now while I’m alive.
All of our legacies will either die out or be forgotten 10 generations into the future.
Think about it:
Do you know what your ancestors from 250 years ago were doing?
What their mindsets were?
How they navigated their day to day?
How they communicated their boundaries?
Probably not.
Men usually care about their legacies because of their egos—but as feminine women that has nothing to do with us.
“How did I get to the misandrist side of IG?”
They don’t realize how they’re telling on themselves, because your feed is uniquely composed of the content that you engage with.
If a dusty engages with women’s dating tips because he’s secretly looking for HIS masculine provider, then I don’t know what to say.
Dusties get to my page because that’s where their victim mindset and desire to police women took them.
No more—no less.
“What would you say a woman offers in a relationship?”
I wouldn’t articulate this to a man, honestly.
My page is for the girlies.
And, the men who get it—get it.
But, it’s unique to everyone’s feminine embodiment.
For example, I love listening about businesses, feeding people (don’t confuse this for actually cooking—that I’m impartial to), giving gifts, and hosting.
A feminine woman in her receptive essence gets to add excitement and color.
The girlie pops are fun.
Men don’t get to embody the range of emotions and flavors that we do because of how they’re socialized and the intensity of their testosterone.
Masculine men bring the money, we bring the yummy.
If you like this and want it to become a series then respond to the email and let me know <3
P.S. You should book a coaching session if any one of the following applies to you:
You are worried that you’re exhausting your friends with the same story about this same man
You need someone to help guide you toward attracting high-frequency, generous, loving, masculine men
You don’t know how to position yourself to attract men who can afford you (and who see you as an investment)
You are uncomfortable with communicating your spoiled girlie needs to the men in your life—and want to better hone your feminine communication skills
You want to embody your feminine energy in a deeper, more magnetic way
You just need a space where you can be entitled, vent, and not be judged for your standards