6 things I’ve learned from observing sugar babies
I knew of Shera7 before she got famous.
I was exposed to her around my first menses, honestly.
I read “first menses” back and laughed, bahaha—I took a sexual development class, and I knew a lot of you wouldn’t understand what menarche meant, so I defaulted to first menses.
Shera7 has been creating content for a long time.
Everyone has a price—you need to know yours.
(When I say price, I mean: what does someone have to invest to access your energy?
What does a man have to invest to access your body?
What must a woman invest to have you in her social circle?
Are you okay with money being the only investment you require, or do you also need emotional investments and investments of time?)
You can not trust an insecure woman.
(An insecure woman will get back at you for reminding her of her lack of esteem.
She will sabotage you within the peer group.
She will try to seduce or even take your man—or she will accuse you of wanting to take hers.
Insecure women have no place around vibrant, bubbly, ray-of-sunshine, feminine girlies—do yourself a favor and remove these women from your life.)
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The mask always slips.
(You can perform all you want, but the mask will slip.
They will find out the truth about your performance eventually.
Get clear on your core needs and values so you aren’t met with your fear of abandonment when the other party realizes you aren’t what they initially bought into.)
Shrinking yourself to make others more comfortable will make them hate you.
(I’m still learning this one—if I’m being transparent.
If they were in your place, they would not do the same, so your doing it infuriates them.
Shrinking yourself for a woman or a man to feel more safe around you will 1000% get to their heads.
They’ll start treating you like they’re doing YOU a favor, lol.
Just leave.
It’s not worth the added emotional charge, and they’ll quickly realize how goofy their behavior was.)
Never get with a man just because of his money.
(He’ll treat you like a piece of meat.)
Sometimes lying—or withholding information—is good.
(There are moments when you don’t need to reveal everything, especially if it could hurt you.
A step further: especially if no one specifically asked you.
Be clear on what is essential to share and what can be kept private for your own peace of mind.)
Let me know which of these resonated with you most!