“Women’s entitlement” & 10 tips for navigating the world while having high standards
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Entitlement: the belief that one is inherently deserving of privileges or special treatment
Privileges vs standards:
I demand kindness, generosity, consideration, and honesty from everyone who wants to access me.
Do I deserve this?
Maybe; maybe not.
But being spoiled is my norm now because I have deliberately curated my social circle.
People do not need to be this way.
In fact, I am pleasantly surprised whenever someone spoils me because it tells me I’ve found someone with good taste.
People do not need to be good to me but if they want access to me then they must treat me well.
Low vibrational men thought that if they could control the government, make the standard workday favor their anatomy, and convince women that all we had to offer was sex—that they’d finally have more power?
Men do not understand how a pretty, feminine woman gets treated compared to them.
I manifest ease and kindness into my life constantly; as if it were magic.
(I thank God for this generosity. If you’re interested in harvesting your feminine energy then get my guide.)
To me, being treated well is not a privilege.
It is my norm.
It may be a privilege for someone else.
Someone who is in fact, not used to receiving it, but hoping they will.
It’s fine if this is where you’re at, my point is that men love policing women.
But the gag is: entitled women expect people to support them while entitled men will literally help themselves to another person.
A woman with entitled energy assumes she's going to get what she wants so she can then upgrade her standards.
What lames don’t want you to know is that assuming as a feminine woman is half the battle.
Whenever someone says “female entitlement” or “women’s entitlement,” I hear “Ugh the XX chromosomers are so entitled because they think they deserve to be cared for in a patriarchal society.”
After years of suppression, women are realizing how powerful feminine energy is and we’re using it to our advantage.
This is causing jealous men attack the root of the issue by making our desires and high self-esteem appear to be the problem.
Here are 10 tips for navigating the world while having high standards:
Reframe “entitlement” as high standards and what you need to feel loved and valued in a relationship.
Who is going to tell you that you don't deserve to be loved how you want to be loved?
Probably someone with low self esteem.
Give others permission to own up to their own needs, be shallow, and be conceited.
I am vain.
But, one thing about me, is I’m gassing up the people around me.
All the women in my circle are stunning.
And, if a man ever tells me he prefers something that isn’t me, then I’d encourage him to pursue it.
And, I would not let him access me ever again.
I am not in the business of convincing others of my worth, you either have good taste or you don’t.
The less you judge others for knowing what they want, the less you will judge yourself.
Don't try to upgrade someone else’s standards
This can actually be an insanely invasive thing to do.
Adopt the motto, if you’re happy, I’m ecstatic.
Distance yourself from jealous people.
Your body will know when you feel jealousy from another person.
Build your self-esteem by surrounding yourself with people who hold grace for you
Servant mindset through learning the ways you like showing up for people
You don’t have to do things that don’t feel right.
But, find the things you enjoy giving to others so you can pour into the people who also care for you.
Be beautiful both energetically and physically
Learn from men's entitlement
Men getting their desires is so socially constructed to be the obvious the next step that you don't notice there was a chance to decide if you wanted to give it to them.
For example, a man can feel like he’s obviously deserving of physical intimacy because he bought you dinner.
But, his expectations have nothing to do with you.
Instead of accepting the patriarchal rhetoric, reframe it.
A man is buying you dinner because he thinks you’re obviously worth investing in.
Stop emotional venting.
Get a therapist.
Stop having men as friends
In the game of social politics—being associated with a man has a low return on investment.
Men are known to pit women against each other and it comes off as having little solidarity with other women.
Men will also step over you to get what they want.
I recommend staying clear of men as much as possible in the friendship department.
All in all, men will make it seem like women who get what they want are bad people.
It’s a fallacy to believe that a smart woman is inherently trying to manipulate everyone.
Instead, she is being selective.
Would it be manipulation to get toned because it's going to help you attract the opportunities that you want?
No, that’s called setting yourself up for success.
Smart women know how to set themselves up for success.
If I had been more with more of a masculine essence then I would have had a different strategy.
I wasn’t, so I’m doing well with what I was given.
But, I’m not special—you get to live a good life, too.